Hold Her Down: A Sapphic Wrestling Workshop & Jam

Taught by Wrestling Kink Educator The Domme Kat

Sapphics — this one’s for you, and only you.

Wrestling is one of the most honest forms of contact there is. Body-to-body pressure. Someone else’s weight deciding whether you get to move. The moment right before a pin sticks. The strength you didn’t even know you have.

I’ve built this workshop to put that feeling in a room full of femmes and woman-aligned people.

We start with real instruction — how grappling actually works, how to negotiate a dynamic, how to build tension through control instead of speed.

I’ll teach close-contact sequences for more playful fighting plus bed-style adaptations for close-contact, low-impact variations, plus pins, holds and transitions designed to feel as good as they look. Then we open the floor and let you play.

Beginners are more than welcome. Come alone and I’ll help you find your footing, or bring someone and build something together. Either way you’re leaving with new holds and a better read on what control and connection feel like in your own body.

Who this is for: lesbians, bi and pan women, queer women, woman-aligned non-binary people and trans folks. Built for you, on purpose.
Cis men — this isn’t your event, please respect that.

What to wear: something that stays put and won’t get tangled or scratch. Shorts, leggings, sports bras, fitted tops, swimwear. Nothing baggy, nothing sharp, no jewelry.

Expect real contact, clear communication, consent and check-ins throughout — you’re always the one in charge of your own limits.

This is educational and guided, not a play party and not a hookup. Come for the wrestling.

Tickets are limited — come find out what you’ve been missing.