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Surrender: Wrestling & ASSphyxiation – TICKETS ON SALE NOW!

Looking for a house party vibe? Ready to try something different?
Join us for NYC’s hottest fetish and wrestling play party!
Surrender Wrestling Parties includes a edutainment plus 4 full hours of open wrestling mat party time!
- Friday, May 30
6 p.m. – 11 p.m.
NYC near Union Square (address provided in ticket confirmation email)
Struggle play, grappling, BJJ, Judo, primal play, wrestling for pins, tickle wrestling, wrestling with ropes, submission wrestling, fantasy wrestling, Zentai… it’s up to you! All types of fetish wrestling are welcome at Surrender.
Wrestling is RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink). While safety measures have been put in place, play at your own risk.
Surrender is one party with lots to do!
- Wrestle on the open public mat with the friends you bring and the ones you’ll make
- Learn safety and maybe a few new moves
- Participate in the included face sitting workshop with Queen Gia Love
- Visit our vendors: elevated treats fro Amun’s Edibles, flash tattoo by Maxie Tattoo, custom fantasy adult toy company Lust Arts, SW Survival Guide, Fantasy Features by GlittersaurusRex
- Chill out in the cuddle puddle room (designated 420 smoke & chill area)
- Experience kink under the guidance of featured providers (please see FetLife @SurrenderParties for line up and contact providers directly to inquire)
…and always a few surprises!
Never wrestled? This is the perfect place to try it! The party begins with lessons, demos and primers on wrestling safety and consent. Referees will be available on the public mat to monitor safety.
Always ASK before touching anyone. If someone is violating your boundaries or harassing you, please speak to Katarina, GlittersaurusRex or consent monitors wearing LED armbands. We have a zero tolerance policy for harassment. If you feel something, say something.
This is a space for everyone to feel welcome. Racism, sexism, ableism, ageism, fatphobia, homophobia, transphobia, kink shaming or any other form of discrimination will not be tolerated.
The space is unfortunately not wheelchair accessible.
If you can’t make it in person, but would like to watch the workshop, please select the “live stream” ticket option. A link will be sent to you before 5/30.
In the interest of harm reduction, proof of a negative Covid test required for entry. Rapid and at-home are OK. Submit your results up to 48 hours prior or show it at the door. Information on submitting your test results provided in ticket confirmation email.
All online ticket sales will end on May 30 at 12 a.m. ET. Door tickets ($80): Register to get the address and other party info.
Queer and transgender people of color and sex workers can ask for a promo code to get pay-what-you-can tickets. There are a limited number available. Ask Katarina for the code if you qualify.
Guests can purchase an add-on ticket to donate tickets for those with financial hardship, purchase party supplies (snacks, wristbands, etc).
SOLD OUT – If you’d like to be Queen Gia Love’s designated demo bottom for her workshop, please select Queen Gia’s Workshop Demo Bottom ticket option ($100). The workshop will be filmed. You may be masked on camera. You will be required to provide photo ID, a selfie with your ID & sign a model release allowing the content to be sold on adult sites.
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