NYC’s hottest wrestling and fetish party for adults looking to do something a little different on their Friday night.

Your favorite wrestling house party is back with a new theme: Feminization!

You’re oh-so-pretty! And if you aren’t yet, you will be (if you consent).

Don’t understand gender play? Be sure to check out the workshop by the incredible The Commandant before the party starts!

Friday, August 15
6 p.m. – 11 p.m.
NYC near Union Square (address provided in ticket confirmation email)

Struggle play, grappling, BJJ, Judo, primal play, wrestling for pins, tickle wrestling, wrestling with ropes, submission wrestling, fantasy wrestling, Zentai… it’s up to you! All types of fetish wrestling are welcome at Surrender.

Surrender is one party with lots to do!

• Wrestle on the open public mat with the friends you bring and the ones you’ll make
• Learn safety and maybe a few new moves
• Participate in the included workshop with The Commandant
• Visit our vendors: elevated treats, flash tattoo, SW Survival Guide, Fantasy Features
• Chill out in the cuddle puddle room (designated smoke & chill area)
  …and always a few surprises!

Never wrestled? This is the perfect place to try it! The party begins with lessons, demos and primers on wrestling safety and consent. Referees will be available on the public mat to monitor safety. Wrestling is RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink). While safety measures have been put in place, play at your own risk.

Always ASK before touching anyone. If someone is violating your boundaries or harassing you, please speak to Katarina, GlittersaurusRex or consent monitors wearing LED armbands. We have a zero tolerance policy for harassment. If you feel something, say something.

This is a space for everyone to feel welcome. Racism, sexism, ableism, ageism, fatphobia, homophobia, transphobia, kink shaming or any other form of discrimination will not be tolerated.

The space is unfortunately not wheelchair accessible.

Live stream option TBA

In the interest of harm reduction, a no-touch temperature check will be taken at the door.

All online ticket sales will end on August 15 at 12 a.m. ET. Door tickets ($80): Register to get the address and other party info.

NO REFUNDS

Transgender people of color (QTPOC) and SWs can ask for a promo code to get pay-what-you-can tickets. There are a limited number available. Ask Katarina for the code if you qualify.

Guests can purchase an add-on donation to make more tickets available for those with financial hardship

Demo bottom option TBA

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